Client Testimonials

Grieving - Bereavement

"Cheryl   has a soft voice that is comforting; so when I were to cry she said   it's alright go ahead and let the healing begin of the grieving. While I   talked with Cheryl Wheeler, each week for an hour; I was finally able   to pull myself together with all confidence to hold my head up n truly   appreciate the grieving process. She helped me through all the grieving   stages. With her admirable experience and knowledge and rewarding   talents and the exceptional gifts from God, she made me a whole new   woman with a brighter look at life. Thank you very much Cheryl Wheeler.   With all my coaching sessions, I highly recommend her for anyone. You   can count on her, she will be there for you, not for the paychecks. She   has helped many people n very much so deep down cares for them. Give  her  a call n make appointment with her."  

Nonjudgmental

"Cheryl's   patience and compassion know no bounds...I have never met  someone  that  is so incredibly nonjudgmental...she will pick you up right  where  you  are, and begin to lead you out into the light...no matter  how  painful  your situation may be, it isn't in her to add to that   pain...Cheryl is  about empowerment and grace and wisdom...totally   trustworthy..."   

Business Coaching

" I had a wonderful business coaching session with Cheryl today!  I came away with many ideas and insights. Thank you Cheryl!"   

Guide Your Experience

"Cheryl   has an incredibly warm and inviting spirit and meets every encounter   with a smile. Cheryl calls upon her teachings with Pia Melody as well  as  other scholars and brings this wealth of knowledge to each coaching   session. She allows you to guide your own experience while lending a   gentle hand to give you the tools you need to be successful. Cheryl is   and will always be considered an extension of our family."  

If you need to work shit out!

"Cheryl  Wheeler is one of the most compassionate humans I've ever met and  had a   personal experience with!! You can look up her resume and for all    those peeps that seek put professionals with degrees... well she has   it! Yet she has a huge heart and world of knowledge in alternative ways    of thinking as well.

 This woman is a great resource!! please consider her if you need to work shit out! she is tremendously helpful! 

My Experience (male perspective pornography)

“I   was first  exposed to pornography at a young age and began watching it   frequently  in my mid to late teens. It was something that I kept  mostly  secret,  except to friends who were involved in their own forms  of  sexual exploitation and seemed to normalize the behavior. After sometime, my  pornography watching escalated into visiting massage   parlors and prostitutes / escorts to indulge in sexual desires and   fantasies; this I  kept hidden from everyone. Looking back on it, there   was a bit of a  dichotomy that existed. On one hand, I thought this   wasn’t a problem and  that I could stop these behaviors at any time if I   really wanted to,  but on the other hand I felt hopeless, stuck and   that there was no way  to get out of this.   

 

Subsequently,    partly spurred by seeing a friend make a change in his life, I  decided   that I had to start be completely honest with myself and  others whom I   cared form. At this time I knew I needed help and sought  out Cheryl.  It  was very challenging to disclose what I was doing to  her, because I  had been keeping a secret so well for so many years and  felt so much  shame.  However, Cheryl made this process much easier with  her warmth,  understanding and compassion.   

Aside   from  this, the person that I opened up to first was the one who I was   hurting  the most, my wife at the time. She made the decision to leave   the  relationship and I made the decision to continue counseling. It  was  very  hard to separate from her, but opening up to her and  continuing  therapy  was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life.  Sessions  have not  always been easy, and Cheryl has had such great  insight as to  when she  needed to challenge me and when she needed to  ease back. With  her I have  felt safe, supported, respected and  empowered with the  courage to  examine my addictive / compulsive  behaviors and change and  grow. I can’t  say enough about her abilities  as a Life Coach. 

In  conclusion, I no longer watch pornography, visit massage parlors /    prostitutes or indulge in any type of behaviors or compulsions related    to the sexual exploitation of another human being. I’m still  triggered   at times, but through therapy and self examination, the  triggers have   become MUCH LESS powerful, and I’m able to confidently  cope and  navigate  through them. I continue to grow, and work on seeing  women as  human  beings who have worth far beyond just gratifying some  fantasy or  desire.  I have had to step up and take ownership of my own   psychological and  emotional challenges, instead of projecting them  onto  others. Again,  this is not always easy and is an ongoing process,  but  even with the  loss of my marriage, I feel so much better being  free of  the sexual  behaviors / compulsions that haunted me for so  long. And for  this, I’m  so grateful to Cheryl, and to the entire  process of recovery  and of  healing!”